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However, if you get in a pinch, you can pull together a nice party 2 weeks. Just make sure you get the invitations out right away or call your guest list.
Less than two weeks is pretty stressful and you risk guests not being able to attend, because they've already made plans.
| 4-6 weeks before party | Choose a theme with your child. Use our Theme Questionnaire to help identify themes that reflect your child's interests. Visit our Themes page for a list of ideas. | |
| Select date and time for party. | ||
| Choose location for party and make reservations, if necessary. | ||
| Develop the guest list (neighborhood friends, class mates, team mates, cousins, etc.). | ||
| Develop party agenda (example: 1-1:30 arts & crafts, 1:30-2:15 games and entertainment, 2:15-2:30 refreshments, 2:30-3:00 present opening, favor distribution, and free play). | ||
| Book entertainment, if any (magician, bounce gym, etc.). | ||
| 3-4 weeks before | Make or purchase invitations. | |
| Mail invitations 2 1/2 weeks before party | ||
| Plan games and activities | ||
| 2 weeks before | Purchase party supplies (decorations, favors, games & activities). Purchase enough for siblings and a few other extra guests. See our Shopping List for help. | |
| Plan menu and make grocery shopping list. See our Fun Party Food and Shopping List for ideas. | ||
| Arrange for help. Identify family members and friends who can help set-up/clean-up, prepare and serve food, and coordinate games and activities. | ||
| 1 week before | Gather up tables, chairs, toys, coolers, serving dishes, and other supplies you'll be using at the party. | |
| Follow-up with the invited guests who have not yet RSVP'd to determine final guest count. | ||
| Order cake & balloons. | ||
| Prepare any foods that can be frozen for the following week. | ||
| 2-3 days before | Charge video camera battery and make sure cameras are working. | |
| Do grocery shopping. See our Shopping List. | ||
| Get cash or make out checks for any paid helpers. | ||
| Prepare favor bags. | ||
| Day before | Prepare remaining food, including cake or cupcakes if making these. | |
| Clean and child proof party area. | ||
| Party Day! | Finish last minute food preparation. | |
| Pick up cake and balloons | ||
| Set-up and decorate party area | ||
| Set-up games | ||
| Have fun! | ||
| Do minimum level of clean-up. | ||
| 2-3 days after | Finish cleanup/put-away. | |
| Have child prepare thank you notes for gifts. Don't forget to send thank you notes to your helpers. | ||
| Get film developed and send pictures to distant relatives, put one on fridge, save some for scrap book. |